A reason, season, or a lifetime

“朋友一生一起走,那些日子不再有,一句话 一辈子,一生情一杯酒”,朋友在我们生活中非常重要,从小到大,不断认识新朋友,忘记老朋友,并不是所有的朋友都一样,陪你到最后。《A reason, season or a lifetime》把朋友分成了三个类型:一种朋友是因为你的需要而产生的,当问题解决之后,朋友就渐渐远去了;一种是与你相处一段时间的朋友,你们一起分享、学习、成长,他们给你带来快乐,给你惊喜,但这种友谊也只能持续较长时间;一种是一辈子的朋友,人们必须在此基础上建立稳定的感情,并用在生活的其它关系上。

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. Sometimes they die. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. Your need has been answered, and now it is time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.


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